1. After a fight, do you examine what you could have done differently? Yes
No


2. Does one partner in your relationship win the majority of your fights? Yes
No


3. During an argument, do you often call your partner derogatory names? Yes
No


4. Do you often learn about something you could do better as the result of a fight with your partner? Yes
No


5. Do you have the same fight over and over, not only about the same topic, but both of you making the same points you always do? Yes
No


6. When youíre fighting, do you often get mad enough to swear at your partner? Yes
No


7. Would you say that over the years youíre learning how to love your partner better? Yes
No


8. Is it sometimes the case that you understand your partnerís point of view, but really know your way is better and should prevail? Yes
No


9. Is the real problem in your relationship something your partner does or doesnít do right? Yes
No


10. Would you say the positive comments you and your partner make to each other are more frequent than the negative things you say? Yes
No